It seems like this person seems pretty highly which he desires to have sexual intercourse, as well as other types of intercourse,
And now have that sex to you. I would try to be sure you choose to engage in, and whoever it is you choose to have sex with that you feel the same way about any sex.
In the event that you decide sexual intercourse or any other types of intercourse with him are things you will do highly want to do, along with him, but have actually particular concerns about, you will need both enough time to essentially discuss your issues, and for him to actually hear them, value them, and invest real amount of time in discussing all of them with you. Which means he's got to pipe straight down about their wants and pay attention to you, actually considering what you need and need, too.
We imagine you might be experiencing as you're now afraid for the relationship no real matter what you state. It seems like, utilizing the method it has been going, and just just what he is been saying, with him will damage your relationship as you feel saying yes might that you might feel just as afraid that saying no to sex. And when you are feeling like that, i am therefore sorry that you will be: that is a spot that is lousy take.
If you should be feeling in that way, however, the things I'd attempt to keep in mind is it:
Whatever your right response is, you truly feel best about, it can't be the wrong answer for yourself, based on what.
It may take place that in the event that you state no, he takes it defectively, and maybe even he blows down your friendship from then on because he does not like this or can not manage your no. Regardless if that worst-case-scenario is exactly what takes place?